My Grandmother Came with Her Grandmother
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By Mary Carr Deane
My grandchildren come with
me. My grandmother’s grandmother was Irene McNeil Bond. Her grand was Kate Bond
Morrow and my grand was Irene Morrow Leatherman. I am Mary Leatherman
Carr Deane.
My father was Richard
Leatherman. My grandson Richard Brinner likes to say he has been coming to the
Belvedere every year since before he was born.
Everyone knows we have
lots of cousins around here. My family loves history and loves “to spin a yarn”.
The porches on the resort have kept that tradition going.
At the dawn of the
twentieth century there were over two thousand hotel rooms in Charlevoix. The
Belvedere Hotel was where many family members stayed. My father said as a child
his mother rented many Belvedere cottages before buying 519 in the early
1940’s. Many of the family were here on V.J. Day, August 14, 1945, and signed a
paper with their names along with others they had gathered to celebrate the
day.
My parents, Carroll and
Richard Leatherman, owned two different cottages at various times. My late
husband, Bo Carr, and I started renting in the late 1990’s. I married John
Deane in 2019. John came to the hotel as a young child with his parents, and
was at Camp Charlevoix for nearly eighteen years. He owned the former 111
(Woodbine) with his late wife Andy, now owned by cousin McNeal McDonnell. John
was Belvedere president from 2009 – 2011.
In my mother’s book, Goodbye
Ole Miss, she tells of her first visit to the Leatherman cottage. She and
my father had a secret engagement. She says: “If all went well in the visit to
the Leatherman summer home, where the whole family spent busy days and nights
together, our romance would have passed the acid test and we would announce our
engagement.
When I arrived in
Charlevoix, I found myself in a magnificent resort town. This was Hemingway
country, and I was often reminded of the Hemingway stories, particularly the
Nick (Adams) stories written after World War II. There are three lakes around
the resort; Round Lake, Lake Charlevoix and Lake Michigan. The Leatherman
(cottage) sat on Round Lake. The Great Lakes looked awesome to an inland girl.
Each morning at the
Leatherman cottage, we were allowed to sleep as long as we liked, unlike some
resort cottages where breakfast is served at eight sharp. At the Leatherman’s,
you could eat breakfast until noon. The maid brought up from the old plantation
made a hundred biscuits every morning, and people cam in from all over the
resort to the Leatherman dining room to have homemade biscuits, Michigan berry
preserves, and a second cup of coffee.
The dining room was very
long with a fireplace at one end. Even though it was summer, Charlevoix could
be cold and we had many fires, particularly at night. My first mistake with
Mrs. Leatherman was saying I was cold one night there. For the rest of my
marriage I was seated in front of the fireplace and Woodie, the houseman, was
instructed to put another log on the fire because ‘Miss Sugsie is
cold-natured’.
The food and company were
absolutely superb, but the activities were not for the faint of heart. Arriving
with a cast on my arm, I was secretly pleased, because I didn’t have to play
all the sports with those excellent athletes.
First , the whole cottage
played tennis in the morning. Then after lunch at the golf club and 18 holes of
golf, we rushed back to the cottage, dressed for water skiing and boarded the
family’s 1947 Chris Craft, “The Rebels,” exactly like the one in On Golden
Pond. We would have an enormous evening meal: plank white fish with whipped
potatoes, broiled tomatoes, two or three kinds of vegetables and beautiful
berries and cherries in season. The only food lacking in northern Michigan was
a good vine-ripe Mississippi tomato. Several times a summer Mr. Leatherman
would go back home to the plantation, and when he returned, he would always
bring back two or three large boxes of homegrown tomatoes.
Tomatoes hold an esteemed
rank in our family to this day. Once I heard a son-in-law tell a friend, ‘I
married into a most unusual family. While other people talk politics and the
stock market at dinner each night we had long, graphic discussions about
tomatoes.’ It became such a joke that years later when other well-groomed
ladies of the resort wore heir-loom pendants and pearls, Mrs. Leatherman wore a
painted wooden tomato necklace. Even the soap in the powder room was shaped
like a tomato.
Occasionally we went to
the movies in Charlevoix or nearby towns. Naturally there was no television in
those days. Other nights, as if we hadn’t enough togetherness, we played parlor
games. The Leathermans loved games. Their favorite trick was to work on a new
game and perfect it, then invite some defenseless soul over to the house and
beat the socks off them. Such competitiveness I had never seen. As the old
comedian said, ‘ I thought about taking exercise once, but I lay down until the
thought passed.’ I shared his feelings after a Leatherman day at Charlevoix.
Other nights we went out
on a friend’s sailboat that also had a motor on it. I tried with the cast on my
arm to ski on a surf board, and I hung on for dear life. The suction of the
water pulled my bathing suit down to my waist. I didn’t care; I was just trying
to stay alive.”
Some things have changed
at the Belvedere, but not everything! With that spirit in mind, John and I have
just bought cottage 145, built c 1900, one of many cottages using cedar stumps
as the foundation. We are embarking on a restoration and aiming to save as much
of the original as possible! We feel quite courageous as we are old and the
cottage dear, but old!!
Needless to say, the
Belvedere is “sacred ground” to us. God has blessed our families by giving us
so much time here.